The Motherhood Journals

The truth is, most mums aren’t told how to prepare for the fourth trimester, the raw, tender, and transformative time after birth. You might feel sore, sleep-deprived, disconnected, or emotionally all over the place. And that’s completely normal. But it doesn’t mean you have to go through it alone. This blog is your gentle starting point, a guide to the kinds of support you may need (and deserve) after baby arrives.

"Do I Really Need This?" It’s a question so many new mums ask, often in the quiet chaos of the fourth trimester. “Do I actually need a postpartum doula? Isn’t that a bit... extra?” When your body is sore, your hormones are surging, and you’re running on fragments of sleep, it’s not about luxury, it’s about being held while you hold your baby. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, touched out, or just bone-tired, this blog is your starting point. Let’s demystify the role of a postpartum doula and help you decide if they’re the kind of support you’re craving.

Pilates for pregnancy is an excellent way to stay active, improve strength, and keep your body in balance. Reformer Pilates provides a safe and effective workout for expectant mothers, with modifications and specialised props available for each stage of pregnancy to enhance your comfort and safety.

In many households, the mental and emotional work of managing a family, often called the invisible load,  falls disproportionately on mothers. It's not just about doing tasks; it's about carrying the mental checklist: remembering appointments, organising activities, planning meals, and anticipating everyone's needs. Over time, this invisible mental load can lead to resentment, overwhelm, and burnout.

Wondering what a nesting party is? Discover why this baby shower alternative is becoming the go-to trend for Australian mums-to-be. As more expecting parents seek meaningful support over tradition, the nesting party is emerging as a powerful, practical, and heartfelt way to gather around the mother, not just the baby.

Discover the early signs of postpartum distress that often go unnoticed and learn when and how mothers should seek mental health support. From baby blues vs. depression to finding the right therapist.

Struggling with breastfeeding in the early days? Learn how to overcome common challenges, establish a strong milk supply, and set yourself up for a smooth breastfeeding journey with expert-backed tips and support strategies

In this honest and empowering interview, we explore sleep support that’s developmentally appropriate for babies and sustainable for families, no quick fixes, just real talk about responsive sleep, attachment, and finding what works for your unique family.

This is truly special to witness; it's a real privilege. As I’m within the sanctuary of the family's home for up to 4 weeks, you subtly and gratefully become part of the furniture, quietly and respectfully. So as the days pass through this ancient lineage of care, you see things shift physically, which is pure biology to me, but also her smile changes as you walk through the door, her eyes are more vibrant and her skin colour changes

The shift in friendships after having a baby is real, and it’s something almost every mother experiences. Let’s dive into why friendships change after motherhood, how to navigate the emotional shifts, and ways to find a new support system that actually fits your life as a mum.

Dear Mama, We see you. We see the way you pour yourself into motherhood, the way you carry the weight of the world while still showing up with love and strength, even when you feel like a shadow of yourself. As a society, we sit here adding to the pressure, adding to the load and, let's be brutally honest - failing you miserably every step of the way. We owe you an apology.

This idea flips the script. Instead of seeing happiness, peace or calm as something that only exists in the future, tied to the achievement of a goal, it invites you to find joy and satisfaction in the present moment. It’s a reminder that your feelings aren’t just an outcome of a milestone, but they are a tool for creating it.